{"id":9217,"date":"2019-02-17T13:10:20","date_gmt":"2019-02-17T02:10:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yogaandhealing.com.au\/?p=9217"},"modified":"2023-10-18T09:42:06","modified_gmt":"2023-10-17T22:42:06","slug":"redefining-relationships-as-constellations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yogaandhealing.com.au\/redefining-relationships-as-constellations\/","title":{"rendered":"Redefining\u00a0Relationships As Constellations"},"content":{"rendered":"

We are all in relationship all of the time <\/a>– nothing new shared here.\u00a0Regardless of whether we are single or in a partnership, we are all always in relationship – with friends, work colleagues, people who serve us at the shops, those we meet socially etc.<\/p>\n

But what are relationships for? What is their offering?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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So often relationships are sought as a means to fulfill something that we are missing inside ie. we seek from someone (outside of ourselves), that which we (ourselves) don\u2019t fulfil from within.\u00a0And then more often than not, we get hurt or disappointed when that person does not meet our expectations (or needs), which also more often than not, we have not honestly looked at (i.e taken responsibility for), shared or expressed openly with the other in the first place.<\/p>\n

The person that \u201cwe love\u201d now becomes that person \u201cwe have angry thoughts about.” And we see this play out in relationships all of the time. The roller coaster ride of the highs and lows – and we call this love, when in truth, love has no highs or lows, and rather unconditionally offers someone the space to be themselves, without imposing upon them. Perhaps this is a different view\u00a0<\/a>from the \u2018emotional love\u2019 that is so often sought after.<\/p>\n

But let\u2019s get back to what the true purpose of relationship\u00a0is.\u00a0<\/strong>Rather than using relationships as a means to seek from another to fulfil our needs or the emptiness that may be inside us, think of relationships as constellations ie. each person in my life is there for a learning, growth and evolution. It is not about going into individuality and the \u201cwhat can I get out of this relationship?\u201d but rather about connecting to the greater potential of what is there between the two of you.<\/p>\n

If we were to look at relationships as potentials and consider why people are in our life, we would soon see our choice to start taking responsibility for our side of the relationship and perhaps have less \u2018issues\u2019 with people as we realise that those \u201cissues\u201d are actually offerings\u00a0<\/em>constellated for us to learn from. This would change everything.<\/p>\n

Indeed if we were to live in a way where we would ask ourselves with every person we meet \u201cwhy is this person really in my life?\u201d, \u201cwhat is the potential offered here?\u201d then wouldn\u2019t our relationships all be exploratory, purposeful and forever deepening?<\/strong><\/h5>\n

A person may reflect to you certain patterns or behaviours that you may not have yet healed within yourself. Or they may reflect a potential that you have not yet dared embrace (said yes to), they may confirm to you the awesomeness that you really are, or there simply might\u00a0be work to be done together to serve humanity. Ultimately the purpose of all relationships does not stop at the individual level and is much grander.<\/p>\n

When we start to see ALL\u00a0our relationships as having purpose <\/strong>they become bigger than just us\u00a0and the other person. We realise\u00a0they are worth\u00a0bringing\u00a0our all to them (or rather we realise our responsibility to do so). We open up to the magic that is there to unfold between people and in this way we activate\u00a0our relationships as a powerful tool for evolution.<\/p>\n

For a deeper study and reflection on relationships we recommend you to explore the following article\u00a0on www.unimedliving.com\u00a0Relationships are always about evolving \u2013 the key to making relationships work<\/a><\/p>\n

Donna Nolan and Alexandra Plane offer\u00a0Esoteric therapies<\/a>,\u00a0<\/em>Massage therapies,<\/a>\u00a0Yoga\/Yoga Therapy<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0Meditation\u00a0<\/a>at their clinics in\u00a0Balmain,<\/a>\u00a0Cammeray <\/a>and Balgowlah<\/a>. Contact them<\/a> for enquiries or bookings.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We are all in relationship all of the time – nothing new shared here.\u00a0Regardless of whether we are single or in a partnership, we are all always in relationship – […]<\/p>\n

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